Navigating Influencers: The New Role Models for Your Kids
Are you aware of who your child follows, listens to, or reads about on social media, podcasts, or YouTube? Just like the saying “You’re the average of the five people you spend the most time with”, the importance of this cannot be understated as it can influence your child’s behavior and outlook on life more than you imagine. Teenagers are highly susceptible to seeking out peers and influencers. And today it is easier than ever to find your tribe. Teens experience tremendous growth in independence that evolves into searching for advice outside the household. It’s not all bad, as your child may seek out positive role models to learn from. But it could also undermine what you teach at home so you need to gain a deeper understanding of who they hang out with, watch online, and/or listen to. And more importantly why.
As parents, it's only natural to be concerned about the influences shaping your teenager's life. In today's digital age, the landscape of peer influences has evolved significantly, and understanding these influences is crucial for guiding your teen on the right path. We'll delve into what parents should be aware of when it comes to the top peer influences for teens in modern society, including friends, social media, influencers, and more.
1. Friends: The Power of Peer Groups
Traditionally, friendships have always been a potent influence on teenagers. They provide a sense of belonging and often shape values and behaviors. In the digital age, friendships can extend beyond physical boundaries, with online friendships playing a substantial role in shaping your teen's opinions and preferences. Pay attention to the company your teen keeps, both offline and online. Remind your teen that online is not always what it seems to be.
2. Social Media: The Double-Edged Sword
Social media platforms are a central part of your teen's life. They offer opportunities for self-expression and connection, but they also expose teens to curated images and unrealistic standards. Be aware of your teen's online activities and engage in conversations about the content they consume and the potential impact on their self-esteem and mental health. When you limit social media screen time, teens are forced to interact more in person. It is a balance.
3. Influencers: The New Role Models
Influencers come in all forms, from beauty gurus to gamers to YouTubers to podcasters. They have become extremely powerful role models for teens today and can significantly impact fashion choices, health choices, product preferences, and even career aspirations. Familiarize yourself with the influencers your teen follows, and discuss their content to understand their influence on your teen's choices and values. Guide them in a direction that is healthy (both mentally and physically) and approach researching the influencer with an open mind. Learn before you criticize. As a parent, knowledge is power.
4. Family: Your Continued Influence
Although peers and digital sources dominate discussions on teenage influences, family remains a cornerstone. You are a significant influence on your teen's values, morals, and overall life trajectory. Maintain open lines of communication with your teen and foster a supportive environment where they can turn to you for guidance.
5. Academic Environment: Shaping Future Goals
Schools and teachers contribute to peer influences by fostering academic competition and career aspirations. Stay involved in your teen's education, discuss their goals, and provide support as they navigate the pressures of their academic environment. The decision on where they attend college can be an important turning point in their life as they are immersed in a culture that has a lot of change and influence. Have them choose wisely.
Remember that your continued support, communication, and active participation in your teen's life can be the most powerful influence of all. By staying informed and engaged, you can help your teenager navigate the complex world of modern peer pressures while building a strong foundation for their future.
